Stop chasing after people and stop chasing after things. Chase and pursue God! Beloved, when you seek God and put Him first everything else will fall into place. He will bring people into your life that is worthy to be in your circle, He will use certain people to bless you, and foremost He will bless you with the desires of your heart. When you seek God and put Him first you will no longer feel the need to chase people and chase things because He will fill the missing void in your life.
"But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you." Matthew 6:33