Individuals are always going to hate on you regardless of the situation or circumstances. Wishing bad on others is it pleasing to God as well. When someone is acting out...do opposite of what they expect you to do. Be the bigger man and just pray for them. Leave them to God because He is the only one who has the power to change folks or the situation. On an ending note, loving one another is a commandment from God...even when they are hating on you.
"But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you." ~Luke 6:27-28
Good read, good vibes, and some spiritual nourishment to empower, inspire, uplift, and to touch the hearts, minds, and souls of others.